Birthing God: Advent 2005

Buddy Summers, Christ Church Uniting, Kailua, HI

 

A few weeks ago some of you challenged me to take the Virgin Mary seriously in a series of pre-Christmas sermons under the heading “birthing God as spiritual practice.”  Who are you people?  Where do you get these ideas? 

 

I had pretty much exhausted my Virgin Mary material when I wrote the “Extra Virgin” sermon a few years back.  I said that God could make virgins out of any of us.  That was pre-Google.  This year I will try to go a step further.

 

Protestants wouldn’t necessarily know this (I didn’t), but the mother of Jesus has had an enormous impact across the earth over the past two millennia.  Did you know, for example, that Mary is the only woman mentioned by name in the Quran? 

 

Mary figures globally in the prayer life of many Christians---  

 

Hail Mary, full of grace, the Lord is with thee. Blessed art thou amongst women and blessed is the fruit of thy womb, Jesus. Holy Mary, mother of God, pray for us sinners now and at the hour of our death.”

 

Mary’s impact is felt from Lourdes and Fatima to eBay.  Yes, eBay.  Tell me you missed the BBC headline last November “Virgin Mary toast fetches $28,000.”

 

An internet casino paid $28,000 for a ten year old toasted cheese sandwich said to bear an image of the Virgin Mary.  Why?  “Because,” they said, “it was part of pop culture". 

 

The Third Ecumenical Council, a fifth century meeting in Ephesus (western modern day Turkey), affirmed that Jesus was fully divine as well as fully human.  Mary, as his mother, has since been identified as “the One who has given birth to God.”  There is a technical theological term for this title:  theotokos (Greek for “God-bearer”).

 

Mary, the mother of Jesus, (as theotokos) bore God’s love and grace into her world.  This Advent, with God’s help, I want to move beyond my Protestant ignorance and prejudice by asking

 

“How can the Virgin Mary, as we encounter her in Luke’s Gospel, help us understand the practical steps we would be taking if called to bear God’s love and grace in our world, the 21st century?”

 

Consent as Spiritual Birthing

 

Today, my focus will be upon consenting to God’s call to us as individuals as a way of giving birth to God, allowing God’s love and grace to be born into the circumstances of the world around us. 

 

One thing I’ve learned from thinking about the angel Gabriel’s visit to Mary is that everything (Jesus’ birth, the new thing God intended to do, everything) depended upon Mary’s response to God.  Her “yes” and ours (should we give it), can make all the difference.

 

The Call of Mary

 

The angel Gabriel from heaven came,
his wings as drifted snow, his eyes as flame;
"All hail," said he, "thou lowly maiden Mary,most highly favored lady," Gloria!

Basque carol, translated by
Sabine Baring-Gould (1834-1924)

 

Greetings favored one!  Be cheerful highly favored lady, rejoice---the Lord is with you. 

 

This is the way it always begins.  There is something unnervingly familiar about these words.  In Exodus, from the burning bush God assured Moses that he would never be bereft of divine companionship ("I will be with you.") Then God calls Moses to an utterly unimaginable mission (i.e. Tell old Pharaoh: Let my people go.)  But, but… “the Lord is with thee.”

 

In the Book of Judges in the time before Israel had kings, an angel appeared to young Gideon, a most unlikely lad and said “The Lord is with you, you mighty warrior.”  Then he gave young Gideon God’s call to conduct Holy War against the Midianite oppressors. (Judges 6:12).  But, but... “the Lord is with thee.”

 

“The Lord is with you,” Gabriel says.  Understandably, Mary wonders about this greeting, what it might mean for her, she who is an equally unlikely young nobody, a soon to be child bride in a backwater nowhere village that few call home.

 

Do not be afraid Mary, you have found favor with God.  OK,” she’s thinking, “here it comes, brace yourself Mary.” And now, you will conceive in your womb and bear a son, and you will name him Jesus

 

“That’s it?  Just have a baby.  What: No tramping out the vineyards where the grapes of wrath are stored?  No journey to Rome to call down plagues on Lord Caesar?  Just get pregnant, that’s it?”  What Mary really said was, “How can this be, since I am a virgin?” 

 

God’s presence in our lives always changes things.  Mary who was a nobody is now a player, about to be a decision maker, somebody with a heart and voice, a mind, and a calling.  Mary, as someone called by God, suddenly has possibilities and questions, and she wants to think them through.   “So, how would that work actually since…you know?” 

 

The angel said, “The Holy Spirit, the power of the Most High will overshadow you.  The child to be born will be holy; he will be called Son of God.  And (for a sign) your relative Elizabeth in her old age has also conceived a son.  This is her sixth month.  She was said to be barren. For nothing will be impossible with God.

 

Mary’s cousin Elizabeth’s who, though way beyond the seasons of child bearing, conceived and gave birth.  When here husband Zechariah was approached by the angel Gabriel with the birthing forecast, he said, “Right.  Show me a sign that what you say is true.”  At least he didn’t start hiccupping wildly as did old Sarah when she overheard the angels telling Abraham of an impending impossible pregnancy.

 

For his altogether reasonable doubt, Zechariah got laryngitis and no sign.  Mary asks for no sign but is given one anyway (go see your cousin---she’s pregnant).  Further, Mary’s question is answered (with God nothing is impossible), and, in due course, empowered and proud Mary gives God an answer to his call.

 

Mary’s Response

 

Here am I, the servant of the Lord.

Let it be with me according to your word.

 

She doesn’t wilt, choke, or abdicate the power that has been given her.  She asks good questions and evaluates the answers.  Everything hangs on her response.  Heaven holds its collective breath.  The most highly favored lady could have said, “You know, that doesn’t work for me just now.” 

 

United Methodist Bishop and former dean of Duke University Chapel William Willimon wrote,

 

Mary could have said No. We could say no. We can say “No thank you God, I am quite happy with my life the way it is. My life may be proceeding in some rather unimaginative ruts, but at least they are my ruts. I may be living only for myself and my projects, but at least they are mine. I’m not so sure that I want to have my life caught up in anything much larger than my life.

 

What went through Mary’s mind?  What goes through our minds when it begins to dawn upon us that God is calling?  Nelson Mandela could have had Mary in mind when he quoted and applied these words to apartheid survivors:

 

Our greatest fear is not that we are inadequate.  Our greatest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure.

 

It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us.  We ask ourselves, “Who am I to be brilliant, talented, fabulous?”

 

Actually, who are you not to be?  You are a child of God.  Your playing small doesn’t serve the world.

 

Mary made a choice.  She chose not to play it small.  Her consent allowed God’s love and grace to be born afresh and in the flesh.

 

The Practice of Saying Yes to God’s Call

 

Mary’s acceptance, her consent, I think, informs our own discipleship and spiritual practice.  God’s call, when it comes, when the angel brings greetings, gives us enormous power.  It gives us the power to give birth to God’s love and grace into some part of the world around us---or, I might add, not to do so.

 

God comes to us in our weakness, in our relative insignificance.  Biblically speaking, the insignificant, vulnerable and weak ones are the ones whom God chooses. 

 

Is that Gold Star mother Cindy Sheehan in Texas who lost a soldier son in Iraq who is protesting the Iraq war chosen by God?  She fits the profile of the unlikely sort of people God calls.  And a movement of Gold Star Families has sprung up around her. 

 

I know this:  God does not intend us to stay as we are, to consent to status quo, to say “oh well.”  We like to say that God loves us just as we are.  That’s true.  God loves us and even in our hiding comes to us and invites us to come out into the sunlight, to expose ourselves as we engage in work that was utterly unimaginable to us before the angel came with God’s greetings.

 

The angel comes to someone and says, “Blessings friend of God, the Lord is with you, the peace of Christ is with you.  It’s time for something new in the Hawaii prison business.  Farming out prisoners to the mainland removes the prisoners from any hope of family and community support for their rehabilitation.  Hawaii loses the chance to exercise responsible oversight.  Heaven waits?  Perhaps someone has already responded.  There may yet be something new under the sun rather than more of the same.

 

The angel is coming to someone to say, “Aloha, beloved of God.  The Lord is with you.  It’s time for something totally new in affordable housing on Oahu.  If you start, I won’t leave you without resources.  Will the Kingdom come to earth or stay in Heaven?

 

I see Gabriel sitting in someone’s kitchen somewhere, perhaps in Washington D.C., someone not a virgin exactly, not yet.  “Greetings!  The peace of Christ be with you.  I want you to bear God’s grace and love into American international relations through resolutions, through resignations (maybe your own) and through renewals in high places.  So, heaven waits.  Will light shine in the darkness, again.  Or does darkness prevail?

 

Conclusion

 

Not everyone is called.  Only the most unlikely are called.  Only the poorest equipped are called.  That might mean us.   We might be called.  And then there is that verse that says, “Many are called but few are chosen.”  What’s that all about?  

 

When do your angels show up?  Early in the morning, or late at night, a few sips into the first glass of wine, nearly through the news cast, or sometime during the silence of worship? 

 

When the angel of the Lord show up to greet you, there will be prayers in heaven and hope on earth. 

 

Aloha nui loa.  Blessings beloved.  The Lord is with you.

 


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